Family 
                  Graves  
                  in 
                  
                  the Cook Islands
                 
                  
                
 
                When 
                  researching our trip to Rarotonga I came across a posting on 
                  the internet from a traveller who was disgusted at the Cook 
                  Islands practice of burying loved ones by the side of the road.
                I 
                  didn't know what to think of that but was a bit surprised if 
                  that was the case.
                Of 
                  course when we got to Rarotonga we saw what this person was 
                  referring to - and I cannot for the life of me work out what 
                  she was upset about.
                Yes 
                  there were graves and small family cemeteries by the main road, 
                  but they were on their own land and were wonderful little plots 
                  tended with care by family members.
                We 
                  thought it was a very nice custom and some of these graves are 
                  wonderful creations.
                Now 
                  if you are on Rarotonga on November 1 then you will be in for 
                  a real treat.
                It 
                  is the celebration of Turama, or All Souls Day (November 2), 
                  when folk get together to remember their departed loved ones.
                On 
                  November 1 they decorate the graves and that night light them 
                  up with candles. That same night there is a requiem mass at 
                  the Catholic Cathedral in Avarua. 
                - 
                  Richard Moore